It has always been a challenge for me to accept the presumed
dichotomy between doing and being. I mean, really, think about it. Being is the
thing that takes no effort. Breath in, breath out. And there you are. You are
being. You are not asked if you want to be, or not to be. You simply are. No
one does it better than someone else. In fact, being is the great leveler
There does seem to be a kind of tension between action and,
well, what exactly? There is something of our life that is about choices and
actions, and something that is about the mystery of being.
In some of my circles, the narrative in Luke’s Gospel about
what Martha and Mary, two friends of Jesus, did while he was teaching, is thought to be all
about doing vs. being.
As if Mary, the
sister of the hostess who sat listening to the rabbi is the example of someone
who is “being” (read: good) and Martha,
the one who opened her home to guests and was busy preparing a meal as the one
who is the model of someone who is “doing” (read: bad).
The issue may have been the scale of preparations that
Martha felt necessary. Was it a question of honoring Jesus? A bit extravagant? A little OCD on the
hospitality scale? Jesus said: “You
are worried and upset about many things, but
few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and
it will not be taken away from her.” Whatever Martha was doing,
Luke says she was distracted.
From listening to Jesus.
But that is not a choice between doing and being. Her sister
also made a choice, and she was doing something.
Listening to Jesus.
What are you going to do today, the things that “have to be
done”? and the things that ought to be done? Catalysts and dreamers who create things don’t like
to sit still for long. But hopefully
today will be one of those days where I get the values right.
A man for whom I had great respect, Pastor Thomas
would pray in the morning: “Lord don’t let me miss my assignment today.” As if God wants to have
something to say about how the day unrolls.
Lord, have mercy on me. I am listening.